Saturday, October 27, 2007

Saturday Morning

Well, everyone is just now getting up so I haven't much time to post. I was up @ 5AM getting all the laundry done as well as some light housekeeping.

Tonight Kim and Lisa get to go to Fetish Factory's Halloween Party @ Revolution. I will be staying home babysitting the kids. Actually, I will be taking the kids to the movies while the girls get ready. I got a preview yesterday of their "costumes" and I must say - they are intense! After seeing their outfits I understand why Kim didn't want the kids to see them :).

I will have a more complete report on the new CB-6000 that I have been subjected to. Huge improvements of the CB-3000 the most important of which is the covering of the underside of the penis behind the head. In the CB-3000, this caused great sensations and now with the CB-6000 - NOTHING! Extremely frustrating and the girls this past week (Kim and Lisa) have been overtly teasing me to test the limits of the new CB6k.

Hope to check in again within a day or two.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

CB-3000 Permanent (pictures)

The pics below show how we modified the CB-3000 using an epoxy mix a long time ago. Notice there are no locks at all. We needed something more streamlined to be less noticable in Speedo's and my bikinis. Monday evening we broke this unit and installed the new CB-6000 which Kim received a couple weeks ago. I will offer a report of this device I am wearing now at a later date. There is certainly an adjustment period to the CB-6000 than the CB-3000 - there is a dramatic difference.
You can see from the pics that this CB-3000 has seen better days and was going to have to be replaced soon anyway, so the CB-6000 timing worked out well.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Flying Home

This is Ken.
I am looking forward to heading home after a semi-enjoyable time abroad. My flight leaves in two hours. I miss Kim, Lisa and the kids terribly.

Kim says we will finally be breaking open my permanent chastity device and be replacing it with the new CB-6000 we received a couple weeks ago. I am curious how it will feel. I wonder if Kim will let me have an orgasm and how long between breaking my cb-3000 to the time I go into the cb-6000. I will post a pic of the device I am in now. It is a modified CB-3000 that we fused the parts together. That was, there is no chance of escape or removal.

While on this trip wife has subjected me to various sexual frustrations. I had to watch several porn videos, listen to countless audio files (hypnosis & subliminal from her), and I had to wear VERY little at the hotel pool and the hotel fitness room. My penis has been leaking like crazy. The most humiliating things has been to perform for her (and she has now told me others besides Lisa) via webcam from my hotel room. I am actually fearful who the "others" are.

Yesterday I see she posted our marriage contract and thankfully she retracted details.

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Our Authentic Marriage Contract

Marriage Contract and Title of Ownership

This contract signed by ----------, hereafter known as HUSBAND. HUSBAND was legally married to ---------, hereafter known as WIFE earlier this evening of ---------- in ---------- County, Florida.

WHEREAS, HUSBAND and WIFE, prior to legally being married earlier this day have engaged in an unorthodox relationship since they met on ----------, 1992. This relationship has involved the submission of HUSBAND to WIFE, where HUSBAND served WIFE in a very submissive manner including but not limited to sexual relations, domestic duties, and various behaviors. Husband desires to continue his relationship with WIFE into that of a female-led marriage. She is expected to be the Head of the Household and he to serve as her willing partner for so long as She will have him.

WHEREAS, HUSBAND sincerely believes in the superiority of the female over the male and this belief goes beyond just sexual relations including all aspects of life.

WHEREAS, HUSBAND strongly wishes to fully recognize his devotion and unconditional love for WIFE by executing this contract. Even when HUSBAND and WIFE have had fights and problems he was completely devoted himself to her with his unconditional love and servitude.

WHEREAS, this contract is accompanied by a lengthier “Rules for HUSBAND” for which HUSBAND agrees to follow those rules explicitly. The “Rules for HUSBAND” were written by HUSBAND for the benefit of WIFE and the rules contained in the accompanying document can only be modified by her.

WHEREAS, HUSBAND already has given his body as property to WIFE in prior verbal and written agreements and this Contract will supersede all prior agreements and contracts, whether written or oral.

WHEREAS, HUSBAND strongly wishes to live the rest of his life in the servitude of WIFE and does so without duress or undue influence from WIFE or others. The genesis of this contract is not sexual in nature. HUSBAND, in no way, is being pressured, blackmailed, or in any way forced to execute this Contract and has written it by his own free will.

WHEREAS, the definition of a HUSBAND, for purposes of this contract, shall be that of a slave to the WIFE.

NOW, THEREFORE, HUSBAND agrees to be contractually bound by the following:

1. PURPOSE.
a. The purpose of this Contract is for HUSBAND to fully and openly acknowledge the devotion he has to WIFE and to display the submissive parameters of the life he has been living and will continue to live with WIFE.
b. HUSBAND expects to solidify his devotions to WIFE by constructing and signing this Contract to enable her remedies should he not fulfill what he expects of himself in his role as her slave.

2. POWER of ATTORNEY and LEGALITIES.
a. HUSBAND agrees, upon WIFE’s wishes, to sign a legal Power of Attorney, enabling her to go before a judge and declare HUSBAND unable to handle his own affairs and granting her full legal rights over him.
b. HUSBAND fully understands the implications of signing such a document whereas he would lose all legal rights to himself.
c. HUSBAND fully understands WIFE may use said Power of Attorney to legally change HUSBAND’s name to any of her choosing.
d. HUSBAND desires to renounce all personal rights, privileges, and property from HUSBAND to WIFE.
e. Should HUSBAND find himself in jail by the authorities: if there by an act at the direction of WIFE, than HUSBAND fully expects WIFE’s assistance in his defense. Since WIFE is not signing this contract, this is only an assumption on his part and in no way obligates WIFE to assist. If HUSBAND is jailed for an act of his own, then HUSBAND should not expect the assistance of WIFE.

3. MARITAL PROPERTY and INCOME.
a. Upon signing this contract HUSBAND agrees, upon the WIFE’s wishes, to officially sign over any of his property to her or to an entity of her choosing.
b. Should WIFE choose to end the marriage and/or relationship HUSBAND acknowledges he may be left without any property or financial support whatsoever.
c. If WIFE chooses to end the marriage, HUSBAND acknowledges that WIFE has the right to sell, trade, or donate HUSBAND to another person of her choosing as he is her chattel. HUSBAND also acknowledges, this can include WIFE disposing of HUSBAND to the custody of the State.
d. Should HUSBAND find himself in a position of receiving income, then prior to the receipt of that income, HUSBAND must arrange to have that income directly received by WIFE or an entity of her choosing. HUSBAND is not permitted to have income and only by the good grace of WIFE shall HUSBAND receive a small allowance, forwhich he is expected to have a full accounting of its expense.
e. Should HUSBAND receive gifts (i.e. Christmas and Birthday gifts) then HUSBAND will immediately give the gifts to WIFE, to become her property, for her to decide what to do with them.

4. SERVICE.
a. HUSBAND agrees to serve WIFE as her humble servant for the remainder of his life and acknowledges she may trade, sell or donate his body to another at anytime of her choosing either permanently or on a temporary basis.
b. HUSBAND will always address WIFE with respect.
c. HUSBAND agrees, upon WIFE’s wishes, he can be permanently marked or altered. This can include and is not limited to tattoos, piercings, brandings, implants, and other elective surgeries.
d. HUSBAND must keep himself clean with excellent hygiene.
e. HUSBAND acknowledges he may be publicly exposed of his status.
f. HUSBAND will perform domestic labor and other home duties. These duties are more clearly explained in the “Rules for HUSBAND”.
g. HUSBAND will entertain WIFE and any guests for their amusements. There are no limits to what this entertainment may include.

5. CLOTHING.
a. HUSBAND agrees to seek permission of WIFE to purchase any clothing if HUSBAND has been given money to make such a purchase. HUSBAND fully realizes most, if not all, clothing purchases will be purchased by her.
b. HUSBAND agrees and acknowledges he will wear anything WIFE demands of him.
c. HUSBAND acknowledges he may be limited to the type of clothing his is to wear. For example, WIFE may desire HUSBAND’s swimwear to be limited in the coverage of a Speedo-style bikini or as small as g-string to be worn in public. HUSBAND must wear what WIFE wishes.
d. HUSBAND may be publicly exposed with little or no clothing at the wishes of WIFE.

6. SEXUAL RELATIONS.
a. HUSBAND agrees to wear a male chastity device of WIFE’s choosing to ensure fidelity to her. This device may be attached temporarily or permanently. Wearing such a device, HUSBAND acknowledges he will not be able to have an erection or an orgasm. HUSBAND fully realizes the ramifications to wearing such a device and has much experience in using such devices and welcomes giving full control of his penis to WIFE. HUSBAND has worn such devices before. Said chastity device may be designed in such a way to be worn 24 hours per day, seven days per week and should be hygienic, allowing for proper bathing and urination.
b. HUSBAND acknowledges he will always be monogamous to WIFE but WIFE can be polyamouros with others. Specifically, WIFE may have sexual relations with as many or as few males or females she may desire, whereas HUSBAND is limited to only having sexual relations, if any, with WIFE.
c. HUSBAND will sexually satisfy WIFE as per her wishes as often as she desires. HUSBAND fully realizes his sexual satisfaction is dependent upon WIFE. HUSBAND always has and always will devote himself to worshiping WIFE.
d. HUSBAND acknowledges masturbation is, in effect, an act of infidelity and WIFE may choose to rid herself of HUSBAND via trade, sale or donation to another party should HUSBAND partake in such activity. HUSBAND agrees not to attempt self-pleasure via his penis without the permission of WIFE.

7. CHILDREN.
a. At some time in the future WIFE may desire to bear children. Such a decision will be completely up to WIFE how and when she will become pregnant and/or adopt.
b. It is also WIFE’s decision whom shall impregnate her as she may have another lover.
c. Decisions in raising the children will be solely made by WIFE and HUSBAND realizes and agrees to do all domestic work related to the children (i.e. diaper changes, cleaning up after).
d. The household will be decidedly slanted in favor of any females and to the disfavor of any males. Should WIFE bear or adopt any females than they are to be treated literally as princesses, whereas any males born or adopted will be treated similar to a life as HUSBAND is living.

8. TERM OF CONTRACT.
a. This contract has no expiration. HUSBAND is bound by this contract for the remainder of his life.

9. HEALTH.
a. HUSBAND fully expects WIFE, though fully realizes she is not required, to administer medical help to HUSBAND should he need medical attention.
b. HUSBAND agrees to maintain his body the best way he knows how.
c. HUSBAND acknowledges WIFE’s desire to have a HUSBAND with an attractive, muscular, healthy body.
d. HUSBAND agrees to eat healthfully, six meals per day, as realistically can be applied.
e. HUSBAND agrees to effectively train his body for strength and endurance utilizing aspects of Triathlon and Strength training.
f. HUSBAND agrees, upon WIFE’s wishes, to eliminate all or part of his body hair to better display his muscles and to keep his skin smooth.

10. PUNISHMENTS.
a. HUSBAND acknowledges and agrees WIFE may need to punish him from time to time. More detailed examples of punishment can be found in the “Rules for HUSBAND”, an accompanying document to this Contract.
b. HUSBAND agrees and acknowledges he may be subjected various punishments that will harm him either temporarily or permanently. He may be subjected to prolonged discomfort.
c. HUSBAND may endure punishment for, and not limited to, not following the “Rules for HUSBAND”, and/or any command given by WIFE or the terms of this Contract.

11. HUMILIATIONS.
a. HUSBAND acknowledges he forgoes any privacy from his WIFE and potentially the public.
b. HUSBAND may be commanded to engage in acts he may find humiliating and agrees to engage in such acts at the command of WIFE or her assigns. Such acts may be private, semi-private, or public.
c. HUSBAND agrees and acknowledges he may be subjected to photographs or video and/or audio recordings of him in humiliating situations that, upon WIFE’s wishes, can be played and displayed for anyone she may desire. She may even sell these recordings for profit if she so chooses. HUSBAND fully realizes the impact of this clause and will not claim “blackmail” or “sexual harassment” should such events take place. Instead he will dutifully accept the humiliation he finds himself a subject.

12. DEATH or INCAPACITY.
a. Should WIFE become incapacitated, WIFE has signed a living will and a medical power of attorney enabling HUSBAND to handle her affairs.
b. HUSBAND will, upon the incapacity of WIFE, devote himself to her recovery. Should her condition not be conducive to recovery, HUSBAND will devote himself to her care and will remain permanently chaste and monogamous to her.
c. Should WIFE’s death precede HUSBAND’s than HUSBAND will continue his life in permanent chastity and will not be permitted to engage another relationship unless express written consent is given by WIFE prior to her death. He will continue to follow this Contract and the “Rules for HUSBAND” as if WIFE was still alive.
d. Should HUSBAND become incapacitated, he has signed a living will and a medical power of attorney enabling WIFE to fully handle his affairs.
e. Should HUSBAND become incapacitated for an extended period of time, HUSBAND acknowledges WIFE may discard him and move on with her life, leaving him property of the State.
f. Should HUSBAND’s death precede WIFE’s than WIFE will continue with her life as she desires.

13. REVOCATION or ASSIGNMENT of CONTRACT.
a. Revocation of this contract lies solely in the hands of WIFE. HUSBAND CANNOT revoke this contract once signed – this contract is irrevocable by HUSBAND.
b. WIFE may, upon her wishes, have this contract transferred or assigned to another individual(s). HUSBAND agrees and acknowledges subsequent holders of this Contract shall retain all rights, privileges and provisions set forth herein.
c. WIFE may also sell, trade or donate HUSBAND to another individual(s) without this contract in place, in effect revoking this contract and can do so on a temporary or permanent basis.

This Contract shall be legally binding to HUSBAND and he signs this Contract of his own free will, without duress, and fully understands its provisions herein. HUSBAND conceived of and wrote this Contract to be given to WIFE upon their wedding night on ----------, 1994. By signing this Contract HUSBAND fully acknowledges and agrees to become the complete and total property of WIFE to do with as she wishes – mind, body, and soul.

By signing this Contract HUSBAND offers himself to WIFE, his Owner:

Signed this ----st day of -------, 1994 ______________________________
----------, HUSBAND to WIFE

Sunday, October 7, 2007

An Introduction

Hello, my name is Ken and I am married to my beautiful wife Kim for now 13 years. Throughout this blog I may be evasive on some locations and/or people as we realize several bloggers in the past have been "found out" and we would prefer this to be, at least semi-anonymous.

This blog, though mostly written by me, will often be overseen by Kim and she may post from time to time. Our intent of this blog is to educate others in how a 24/7 relationship like ours can exist in the real world and perhaps there is some slight exhibitionistic thrill at the same time.

Whereas I grew up in a very conservative family, Kim grew up in a more open environment. It was within my own conservative surrounding I first became aware of my submissive nature at the young age of 8. Kim says she has "always" known her dominant nature since she can remember. Kim was born here two months after her parents moved from Brazil and it has been my personal observation that Brazilian men put on a high degree of bravado in public, but once @ home it is a completely different ball game.

I am now in my early forties and she is now in her early-mid thirties. We met at a mutual friend's party and ended up having sex (will describe later) during the party. We were married about one year later and happily have a daughter and a son. Unlike some families that put on a good front, we are genuinely happy. Do we have problems and do the kids drive us crazy from time to time - certainly. Do Kim and I fight - never.

As we move forward we will be trying to play catch up for the total of 14 years we have been together and hope you enjoy the fun and wild journey we have been so fortunate to have experienced. Although there are many aspect to our lives, this blog will focus on the D & s aspects to our marriage.